Me and my partner recently broke up, he moved out of the house that we bought together and has moved home with his parents. he has had lots of pressure in the past year, due to his new job, renovating our new house and moving away from home, amongst other things and we seemed to get lost on the way somewhere. we decided to call it a day as he thinks that he needs to go and get a flat in the city for convenience of rolling out of bed and into work, etc. he has expressed interest in us being able to stay friends, but we have agreed to keep our distance for a little while and possibly meet up for a drink in a month or so to sort out what to do with the house, etc.
he has contacted me via text message almost once a week since we agreed this. the first time i met up with him at the gym so he could collect some things off me. we spent over and hour in the pool together and he seemed to be slightly put out at the fact that i did not seem devastated that we had split. we seemed to get on really well. later that night he text to say he had a nice time as he thought it was going to be awkward and horrible, and it wasnt. i asked if he knew whether it was definately over as i felt like i was hanging on. he text saying that i should take it that it is definately over as he is, and that the only way it could work is if we are friends. he also said that he was desperately lonely at the moment, but its for the best. i decided not to contact him. but since then he has text me twice to ask me a couple of times to ask for things. but instead of just asking he is adding details, asking me questions, or giving me extra details that i havent asked for, like telling me what he is doing that night, and that he xbox has broken. that sort of thing. i accept the situation and have not been begging him to come back or anything. i am gutted and would like to work on building a new relationship eventually, but am under no illusions. however, i sometimes get the impression that he doesnt know what he wants. how would i be able to tell if he did regret his decision, (he is a proud guy so i cant see him admitting it), but would their be any clues as to his behaviour or his actions that i should possible look out for. also, what behaviour, etc, would indicate that he has definately out an end to our relationship in his mind??? any opinions/advice would be useful, particularly from a guy!! Thank you!
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