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when i say tied in, i mean that there is an early redemption penalty…I assume this means if we PIF there is the fee to pay?
I just graduated and I start a new job tomorrow that pays $40,000/year. I never established any sort of credit in college.
I just moved here and in order to get an apartment and to get an auto loan they had to look up my credit score, and my parents had to cosign for each. For the electric bill they had to look up my credit score and finally in order to get a secure credit card they had to look up my credit score.
I know each time someone checks your score it goes down a few points, so I’m assuming mine is crap.
How long should I wait to consolidate these private loans? How long will it take to improve my credit score enough to make a difference? Is loan consolidation a good option for me? Thanks for your help.
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I’ll sum it up real quick if you don’t wanna read all that: My mother in law who has always been overbearing bought tickets to a play for my stepson without asking my husband and I if he had plans, after we told her to wait to buy them already. Well, he did have plans. Heres the new issue.
She called me and put me on the spot, big time. She called from her cell phone, with the ticket company on her home phone. She said “What Saturday in December is he free?” I said “I dont’ know, I’ll have to get back to you” (Typically, my husband and I discuss decisions together and I honestly didn’t know what was going on for the month anyway — we have 3 different Christmas parties to go to and I’m unsure of the dates, etc.)
She said “No. You need to tell me now. You know he (my stepson) really wants to go and this isn’t fair.” So I said “I’m sorry I don’t know I’ll have to call you back.” She said “I have them on hold right now! I can’t call them back! Please don’t make me eat this, please. It’s not fair. Can he go this Saturday? Is that fine? He can’t be busy every d*mn Saturday.” I said “Fine.” and hung up.
I am livid that I was put on the spot. I guess it’s my own fault for not standing up for myself and just flat out saying “Tough I’ll have to call you later” and getting off the phone. Grr. I just don’t know how to handle the situation now because I’m so angry right now that I just want to scream at her. Of course I wouldn’t do that, but I don’t know what to say to her. I’m mad that she stepped out of line, then she lied to my husband by saying it was almost sold out and it was the last show so she had to buy it, then when she talked to me “any Saturday works”, and I’m mad for getting put on the spot and forced to make a decision we weren’t ready to make yet. I guess it’s unfair to say I was “forced” because I am in control of my own actions, I’m just annoyed.
Should I confront her about how I feel about how she treated me, or just let it go and suck it up? I want to know if I’m unreasonably angry. (I’m also angry because I don’t think he should go since she stepped so much out of line.)
Unfortunately I felt pressured to say “fine” considering my husband thinks he SHOULD go since they spent money. We were going to talk about it later, which is why I tried stonewalling her so much and telling her we’d call her later. I was wrong for not sticking to that, but I couldn’t disrespect my husband’s feelings by telling her “No.” I know I should have just stonewalled and stuck to that.
I can’t call her back and tell her no, because my husband wants to let him go. So I guess I say nothing. 
And just to add for the 3rd person to answer, the day she asked about the plans was last night, at 6:00 at night. And he told her to call with the showtimes and we’d let her know.
And my husband doesn’t make the final decision with my stepson. If that works for you great, but we run our household with equal say for all our kids — that’s just how we run it.
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Thanks for all your help (uk only)
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