How many graduate students still live with their parents? Do you think it’s a reasonable decision?
I do because I initially wanted to focus on my grades, make the best out of my education, and my career. My first year of graduate school was HORRIBLE, and I don’t think I could have managed living on my own and working full-time to support myself. Some of my classmates ended up failing out of school because they were working FT to pay their rent.
My school actually doesn’t have dorms/campus apartments, and taking out loans for living expenses would have put me into more debt. My school education alone is highly expensive.
At the moment, I do plan on moving out and it would probably be more ideal once I finish my degree and can get a stable job (not the minimum-wage paying side job that I just got).
I was getting chastised in another question of mine for not being “financially secure” and on my own at age 25, but I think my situation is reasonable. I was wondering if any other graduate students are still receiving support from their parents
I want to move out because I’m not happy with my family situation. It’s a long and complicated story.
When I move out, I want to be 100% confident though. I want to make sure I have enough money to support myself and not survive from paycheck to paycheck or get a panic attack over bills. If I don’t feel 100% confident at the moment, there’s no reason to spontaneously jump out there. Sure, I won’t have to deal with my parents anymore…but there will be other unnecessary difficulties. I’m the type of person who likes to plan things, set long-term goals and make sure I got everything in check.
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Its ok I guess. I still cant figure out why you HAVE to move out. Does not mean u are irresponsible or anything, just a personal decision (if ur folks dont kick you out that is). Screw everyone else, do what is best for you.
As a parent of a live-in graduate, you have answered your own question. If you’re uncomfortable at home, you must move on or have a meaningful discussion with your family. They must believe that you WANT to live in their home with or without an education. You wouldn’t stay at someone else’s home if they were uncomfortable with you, so the same goes for your own family. Minimum wage only means minimum effort. You can buy a home, get a doctor’s care, and even save for retirement on minimum wages if your smart about it. Don’t let wages stand in the way of you enjoying your short time on earth. Finish school and be proud of your accomplishments. Your own pride dictates your family’s pride in you. Be kind, fair, and forgiving, and you’ll make a fine citizen.