Comments on: i really need some advice here - i have no idea what to do. please read?

By: nyki12

nyki12 — Fri, 14 May 2010 22:25:13 +0000

i’m really sorry to hear about your situation. everyone so far has given you decent advice and support. if you want to consider a lawyer to help your case, you could check out these, two websites…..”greatjoboption.com” & “acareerchange.info” these two websites have good information about getting legal assistance for a resonable price also, if your interested they provide information about receiving additional income. if all else fails….make sure you continue to acknowledge the lord, and everything will fall into place because he does have your back. if you need someone to talk you can message me or send me an email…..i wish you success, and you have my blessings.

By: luckyouaskhole

luckyouaskhole — Fri, 14 May 2010 05:22:42 +0000

Well I see why you changed your avatar to have an angry expression, and now I know why youre getting sued. So you and him weren’t married and you had a kid? I don’t think he can claim to have rights and custody and whatever all that legal garbage is because youre not married and therefore have no proof who the father is. or do you? i really don’t know. I think you should leave this guy, i’m all confused he proposes to you now he wants to leave you? Sell your car get an apartment of your own an live your life single unless of course you want to have your son with you then see what you can do about having custody. hopefully you will find a guy that doesnt treat you like this, a guy like me, but guys like me are not popular with girls so you will have to look.

i hope everything works out for you

By: mommytoMaddie and Due 2009

mommytoMaddie and Due 2009 — Wed, 12 May 2010 10:37:22 +0000

I would start with maybe finding family near by that you can live with or help you out even if it isn’t with money. Also look toward the state for some help,with food,child care, medical bills and housing. If you do have to go to court then let them know that the daddy has been in and out of the childs life and the same with the grandparnets and that you have been a single mom and let them know exactly what the dead beat dad that he is. I’m sorry for your struggles but think positive it will get better even if it has to get worse first.Lots of luck

By: faithfully_mine

faithfully_mine — Mon, 10 May 2010 15:00:38 +0000

listen dear I am not going to lecture you because I know what it’s like when you trust a irresponsible person who thinks of nothing but him self, you where not to blame it’s not your fault, you tried to save a family from being broken.

Well what is done is done, sue him for child support and get a lawyer or legal help and let them tell the judge that he promised this and that and proposed to you, and you were scammed and had to give up what you had because of his promises.

what about your family can they help ?

don’t worry dear be strong and don’t give up and take care of your self and your baby.

you’ll be fine without him, you don’t need a lying irresponsible kid for a man.

Good luck