My boyfriend asked me 400 pounds rent to live in his flat. His mortgage is only 150. He earms twice as I do?
Sunday, August 1st, 2010 at
12:48 pm
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you should conclude that he doesn’t want you to live there.
Ummm…no, it isn’t fair.
Me thinks there’s a hidden message in that request.
Dump the BaStArD and move on…you deserve better and he doesn’t deserve you.
You’re not merely living with your boyfriend — you’re living in Denial.
Or maybe he is just taking advantage of you? So, dump him and find other man. There are many better men out there!
Please go back and read your question as if somebody else had asked it. Then you’ll know the answer. Sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees.
It is quite unfair. A caring boyfriend would understand when he sees you struggling to cope financially and would suggest that you pay a little bit for bills, rent etc…..
But 450 is way too much considering he is only paying 150 for the mortgage. I’m sure there are bills involved but since he is earning a lot more than you do, I think you should have sit him down and ask him how he managed to come up with the 450 figure……
Don’t just dump the guy or start accusing him without giving him the chance to tell you his side of the story……but keep in mind that he could very well turned out to be quite a selfish guy. Dump him if he is.
Find a new boyfriend,he doesn’t seem to want you there. His tough luck.
You may be dating this guy, but he is NOT your friend.
You need a new boyfriend.
(Come on, this is obvious, isn’t it?)
Either he thinks you are an idiot he can scam for money or he simply doesn’t want you to live with him and doesn’t have the balls to tell you to your face.
Either way, he’s just revealed the giant L branded on his forehead.
He has no respect for you or for your relarionship. It would be this today and something else later. You now have the measure of him as a man and what the future will hold.
Ditch him with no big discussion and see what he says then.