Comments on: My boyfriend asked me 400 pounds rent to live in his flat. His mortgage is only 150. He earms twice as I do?

By: jackson

jackson — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 13:02:07 +0000

He has no respect for you or for your relarionship. It would be this today and something else later. You now have the measure of him as a man and what the future will hold.

Ditch him with no big discussion and see what he says then.

By: MVD34

MVD34 — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 05:27:37 +0000

You need a new boyfriend.

(Come on, this is obvious, isn’t it?)

Either he thinks you are an idiot he can scam for money or he simply doesn’t want you to live with him and doesn’t have the balls to tell you to your face.

Either way, he’s just revealed the giant L branded on his forehead.

By: STEVEN F

STEVEN F — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:19:06 +0000

You may be dating this guy, but he is NOT your friend.

By: RedFox

RedFox — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:41:09 +0000

Find a new boyfriend,he doesn’t seem to want you there. His tough luck.

By: Yi San L

Yi San L — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 13:00:34 +0000

It is quite unfair. A caring boyfriend would understand when he sees you struggling to cope financially and would suggest that you pay a little bit for bills, rent etc…..

But 450 is way too much considering he is only paying 150 for the mortgage. I’m sure there are bills involved but since he is earning a lot more than you do, I think you should have sit him down and ask him how he managed to come up with the 450 figure……

Don’t just dump the guy or start accusing him without giving him the chance to tell you his side of the story……but keep in mind that he could very well turned out to be quite a selfish guy. Dump him if he is.

By: Soozie Q

Soozie Q — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 05:55:01 +0000

Please go back and read your question as if somebody else had asked it. Then you’ll know the answer. Sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees.

By: Pikaboo

Pikaboo — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 22:05:38 +0000

Or maybe he is just taking advantage of you? So, dump him and find other man. There are many better men out there!

By: 100% Organic Snark™

100% Organic Snark™ — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 05:58:29 +0000

You’re not merely living with your boyfriend — you’re living in Denial.

By: THIS IS THE BEST ANSWER

THIS IS THE BEST ANSWER — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 20:56:22 +0000

Ummm…no, it isn’t fair.

Me thinks there’s a hidden message in that request.

Dump the BaStArD and move on…you deserve better and he doesn’t deserve you.

By: John M

John M — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 01:21:40 +0000

you should conclude that he doesn’t want you to live there.