Comments on: Need Help w response to a winning buyer on Ebay, now wants 2 back out, because I am Wiccan. Grrr HELP ?

By: Nightwind

Nightwind — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 22:31:57 +0000

Deal is a deal. Interesting that her conscience is “forcing” her to not buy the beads, but that same conscience doesn’t have a problem with her backing out of a legal contract! Thou shall not bear false witness, indeed!

I’d hold her to it, I’d use all of the resources available through Ebay to get your money, and I would give her negative feedback if she doesn’t carry through.

She’s laying a guilt trip on you, making it sound like you’re being unreasonable if you insist on holding her to what she promised.

Tell her plainly the beads have nothing to do with the occult. Beads are beads. Also tell her that this is how you make a living, that there are responsibilities as an Ebay seller that you keep to (paying your fees, for examples), and that it is more thaqn reasonable to expect this woman to live up to her responsibilities as a bidder, responsibilities she agreed to when she chose to use Ebay.

By: Labgrrl

Labgrrl — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 23:15:08 +0000

Report her to ebay. Simple.

By: Tasha

Tasha — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 14:08:37 +0000

I would just ask her to cover the expenses you have already incurred and move on. Someone else will buy the beads, and if you get your money back for the listing fee, etc., then you’ve lost nothing.

By: Rasta Vibration

Rasta Vibration — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 11:50:00 +0000

Tell her you have incurred costs already and must be compensated.
Tell her youer not a Satanist just an idolatress umm no just tell her you dont do black magic or associate with “evil”.

Some people get freaked out by the occult.
Anyways good luck in your dealing and Jah bless.

By: annie b

annie b — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 06:47:25 +0000

the woman is a christian, so am i… so i understand where she’s coming from. i wouldn’t buy anything from you either.. but she did make the bid and it’s not a christian thing to do to back out now. because that is cheating you out of your money. so tell her if her conscience is telling her not to buy/accept the item thats fine you won’t send it to her. but she still needs to give you the money or she is breaking a commandment because she is basically stealing from you by not paying.

By: I accept Chaos

I accept Chaos — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 21:35:54 +0000

I would just send her an email stating that she made a binding agreement with you and that you are sorry but it is not possible to back out of this. That you have incurred costs already and you are doing this for business and not for pleasure. If she for some reason cannot touch these beads because of her religious belief let her know that she could or you will donate them to an abused women’s shelter or an elementary school class to do projects with, but that she must pay the debt that she incurred with you. Anything less would be cheating you.

Assure her that you did not perform any magick on the beads and no ritual baby slayings either.

By: Lizzy

Lizzy — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 11:13:37 +0000

whats so bad about that??

By: Doug Graves-Witherspoon

Doug Graves-Witherspoon — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 18:56:00 +0000

Why did you tell her that you were Wiccan?