Sunday, March 15th, 2009 at
8:29 pm

So I have been having a lot of problems with my parents. They seem to think that whenever we are all together they can take over the raising of the kids. We have gotten into numerous fights about this. Now the recent fight was they paid for our house flat out since me and my hubby’s credit is in the toilet. We have been paying them off every month. We have been renovating to make the house more to our taste (making it a home). Then my mother bring up how she doesn’t like what were doing to HER house. I explained I thought since we were paying her off its our house, but I guess it doesn’t work that way in her mind. So me and my hubby have decided to move back out to Ottawa, where we were before moving closer to the kids grandparents (were all his family is and all our friends) Now my mother thinks I’m only doing this to get away from her, which in a way a little distance will help our relationship. But the main reason we are moving back is because both me and my hub are miserable here. This is a very small town so there aren’t much jobs to choose from, so currently he’s a delivery man for a pizza place, and I can’t find a job.
Back in ottawa he already has a job lined up that pays well, my SIL is trying to get me into were she works. My MIL has already offered to watch both kids while we work and there is bus transit there (we only have 1 car) Here there is no other mode of transportation so when Kenny is at work, I’m stuck at home because I’m about 20 mins drive into town.
Do you think were being unreasonable about this? I told my parents that when we move they can sell the house and whatever left over we owe I will still pay monthly.
Thanks ladies, you’ve made me feel much better about my situation. For some reason when it comes to my mother, I still feel like a child. She just has that way with me, and the guilt trips don’t help.
Passive Income